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老外真的喜欢中国女人吗?(新东方校长俞敏洪夫人写)

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       友情提醒:如果您是女士,文章中某些内容可能会令您在感情上略感不适。

       原文出处:犯贱志,原文标题:《中国女人,请不要和老外上床》,考虑到女同胞的感受做了修改,内容保持不变。

       引子:据说在日本,*工作者是不为中国人提供Special Service的。

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       如果你问一个老外,你为什么来中国?
       他多半会回答说,因为喜欢中国悠久的历史、灿烂的文化、壮丽的山河、高速的发展、巨大的变化。

       但是我告诉你,除了极少数由政府、公司派驻,通常拖家带口的老外之外,绝大部分与以下两个因素有关:
       第一,在家混得不怎么样或者根本混不下去;
       第二,找中国女人。

       一天中午,我和朋友、一位法国小姐到外面吃饭回来,快到单位门口,远远看到对面来了一个收垃圾的老头,手上推着一个小推车。这时,法国小姐捅了捅我,”你看见了吗?””看见了什么?”我很奇怪。”就在你前面。”我这才发现,对面这老头是个老外,佝着背,仅有的几个头发又长又 脏又乱,难怪让有点近视的我一开始误以为是收垃圾的。他手上那个小推车推的可不是废品,而是一个混血小孩。他身旁跟着一个中国姑娘,一个年轻、漂亮、高挑的中国姑娘。

       法国小姐笑起来了:”你们中国女人到底是为什么?”法国小姐之所以笑,是因为我们刚刚吃饭的时候,恰好在谈这个问题。其实,我早就见过、听说过这类外国男人和中国女人的故事,以前也从来没有往心里去,但是眼前的这一对对比实在太强烈–如花似玉的中国姑娘和一个又老、又丑、又脏、又矮、又秃、又干瘪的外国男人,还有他们在小推车的婴儿。

       另外一边,法国小姐笑弯了腰(我不知道她为什么笑成那样)。那一刻,我作为一个中国人,自尊受到了深深地伤害。

       几天后,我做了三个决定:第一,我将我所知道的某些外国男人丑陋的真相告诉大家。第二,我要因此发动中国人起来阻止中国女人围着外国男人转。第三,也是最重要的是,作为一个中国学者,我决定暂时中断我的正常的工作,全心投入一项还从未有人做过的研究,那就是,研究外国女人眼中的中国男人形象,从而可以最终帮助中国男人追求外国女人。
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曾仕强《圆通的人际关系》PDF电子书下载

        最近在工作之余观摩各家的讲座与书籍,是否全部可取未曾可知,至少可取其精华。

       今天秋天给大家带来一本国学管理代表人曾仕强先生的著作,他曾在CCAV的《百家讲坛》栏目中做过《胡雪岩的启示》演讲,各观众小盆友中或有人知悉。

       曾仕强其人

       中国式管理大师,全球华人中国式管理第一人,台湾兴国管理学院校长、英国牛津大学管理哲学荣誉博士、英国莱斯特大学管理哲学博士、美国杜鲁门大学行政管理硕士、国立台湾师范大学教育学学士;专研中、美、日管理比较;易经在管理上的应用;中、西管理思想比较;人际关系与沟通;中国人的民族性与管理;人伦关系与企业伦理;著有《中国管理哲学》、《二十一世纪易经管理法》、《胡雪岩成功秘笈》等百种管理著作。 
       现任国立交通大学教授,中国统一建设促进会理事长,人力资源发展学会常务理事,国际管理基础会董事,美国东西方大学管理学教授 。

       主要研究和倡导在中国文化&价值观取向下的企业管理与人际沟通方式,与其他西方管理理念学者最大不同在于中华特色。

曾仕强-《圆通的人际关系》

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学历门-唐骏“西太平大学”博士文凭之真伪

        唐骏其人,“打工皇帝”的名号自不必说,加上他的一贯高调,知道的人就更多了,这里秋天不再赘述。

       最近科普作家、学术打假人方舟子揭露唐骏的学历多有造假嫌疑,并提出了证据;唐骏立马出面反驳,试图为自己澄清事实。这就是近来网上热传的“学历门”事件。

       且看方舟子先生7.7的一篇博文“唐骏当着全国人民的面说假话”(原文地址)。

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       自从唐骏在美国的履历被我质疑以来,唐骏一直采取的是“懒得理睬”的态度。昨天突然先后在中国之声电台和中央电视台东方时空接受电话连线,为自己的履历辩护,倒也是个进步。唐骏指责我打假者先造假,央视没有给我回应的机会,我就在网上针对唐骏的自辩,一一回应如下,看看究竟是谁在造假。
       一、唐骏在央视上声称,他从来没有说过自己是加州理工学院(或大学)的博士,也从来没有说过自己曾经在加州理工学院做博士后研究,在其《我的成功可以复制》一书中从来没有这些内容,是我捏造出来的,并说我从来没有看过这本书,是先造假再打他的假。
       我当然看过《我的成功可以复制》一书的相关内容。在当当网、新浪读书、腾讯读书等网站有该书的电子版。根据我对国内图书出版情况的了解,该电子版是书出版时出版社送交网站用作宣传用的,不是本人的捏造,也不是其他人输入的。在该书第56节最后一段唐骏称自己获得加州理工学院的计算机科学博士学位:
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央视王利芬:从主持创业节目到践行自主创业

        王利芬其人:http://baike.baidu.com/view/774820.htm?fr=ala0_1
        07年上班非常喜欢的节目之一就是王利芬主持的的《赢在中国》,可以看到那么多创业者得到马云、吴鹰、熊晓鸽等人的点评,总有一种身临其境的感觉。到了08年接着看了一期,后来也经常看她主持的《我们》,同样是非常优秀的一个节目。看她的节目可以感觉到一种气势,居高临下俯瞰全局的气势。
        今天在南方周刊上看到一篇关于她的文章,由于09年开始宿舍电视没了信号再也没用看过电视节目,今天方知道原来她已经从CCAV辞职创业了。
        下面是南方周刊上关于她的创业访谈。

 
王利芬

        2009年9月从央视辞职。王利芬创办了优米网并任总编辑,开始创业生涯。2005年和2008年先后创办《赢在中国》、《我们》栏目,任总制片人兼主持人。同年被达沃斯世界经济论坛评选为“全球青年领袖”。曾任《经济信息联播》、《全球资讯榜》、《第一时间》、《经济半小时》总制片人等,《东方时空》、《焦点访谈》、《新闻调查》的记者。

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郭台铭的《四个如果》

        下面这张照片大家不一定很熟悉,但提到他的名字相信很多人都耳熟能详:郭台铭。

 

郭台铭

       暂时抛却富士康的“血汗工厂”事件,仅从管理理论上来看待他和他的鸿海集团,无论你是管理阶层,还是一线工作者都能不同层度的从他的《四个如果》理论受益。

       24岁,郭台铭成立鸿海塑料公司的那年,鸿海是个仅有15名员工、规模只有30万元新台币的小公司,但他的奋斗目标很明确,就是要成为台湾地区第一、亚洲第一、世界第一。为号召员工实现这一宏大目标,一次,他在员工大会上提到了《四个如果》。

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苹果CEO斯蒂夫 乔布斯在斯坦福大学毕业典礼上的演讲。

      这一段时间在看CCTV-1晚上播出的《我们》,里面穿插播放了苹果CEO斯蒂夫 乔布斯的演讲,虽然不很长,但非常精彩,对事业、人生的思考很深。演讲是2005年的,演讲现场有不少笑声,但也有不少人因为他的演讲而留下了泪水–为他对病魔不屈的抗争和勇敢的精神所深深感动。个人认为他的演讲视频和演讲稿都极具收藏价值,特别是最后一段引用的一句话:"Stay Hungry, Stay Foolish"尤为经典。
      现在把他的演讲视频和中英文演讲内容整理出来,分享给大家。
      请注意这个视频是分两段的,第一段结束后会自动播放第二段。

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      英文演讲原稿:

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  I am honored to be with you today at your commencement from one of the finest universities in the world. I never graduated from college. Truth be told, this is the closest I've ever gotten to a college graduation. Today I want to tell you three stories from my life. That's it. No big deal. Just three stories.
  The first story is about connecting the dots.
  I dropped out of Reed College after the first 6 months, but then stayed around as a drop-in for another 18 months or so before I really quit. So why did I drop out
  It started before I was born. My biological mother was a young, unwed college graduate student, and she decided to put me up for adoption. She felt very strongly that I should be adopted by college graduates, so everything was all set for me to be adopted at birth by a lawyer and his wife. Except that when I popped out they decided at the last minute that they really wanted a girl. So my parents, who were on a waiting list, got a call in the middle of the night asking: "We have an unexpected baby boy; do you want him " They said: "Of course." My biological mother later found out that my mother had never graduated from college and that my father had never graduated from high school. She refused to sign the final adoption papers. She only relented a few months later when my parents promised that I would someday go to college.
  And 17 years later I did go to college. But I naively chose a college that was almost as expensive as Stanford, and all of my working-class parents' savings were being spent on my college tuition. After six months, I couldn't see the value in it. I had no idea what I wanted to do with my life and no idea how college was going to help me figure it out. And here I was spending all of the money my parents had saved their entire life. So I decided to drop out and trust that it would all work out OK. It was pretty scary at the time, but looking back it was one of the best decisions I ever made. The minute I dropped out I could stop taking the required classes that didn't interest me, and begin dropping in on the ones that looked interesting.
  It wasn't all romantic. I didn't have a dorm room, so I slept on the floor in friends' rooms, I returned coke bottles for the 5 deposits to buy food with, and I would walk the 7 miles across town every Sunday night to get one good meal a week at the Hare Krishna temple. I loved it. And much of what I stumbled into by following my curiosity and intuition turned out to be priceless later on. Let me give you one example:
  Reed College at that time offered perhaps the best calligraphy instruction in the country. Throughout the campus every poster, every label on every drawer, was beautifully hand calligraphed. Because I had dropped out and didn't have to take the normal classes, I decided to take a calligraphy class to learn how to do this. I learned about serif and san serif typefaces, about varying the amount of space between different letter combinations, about what makes great typography great. It was beautiful, historical, artistically subtle in a way that science can't capture, and I found it fascinating.
  None of this had even a hope of any practical application in my life. But ten years later, when we were designing the first Macintosh computer, it all came back to me. And we designed it all into the Mac. It was the first computer with beautiful typography. If I had never dropped in on that single course in college, the Mac would have never had multiple typefaces or proportionally spaced fonts. And since Windows just copied the Mac, its likely that no personal computer would have them. If I had never dropped out, I would have never dropped in on this calligraphy class, and personal computers might not have the wonderful typography that they do. Of course it was impossible to connect the dots looking forward when I was in college. But it was very, very clear looking backwards ten years later.
  Again, you can't connect the dots looking forward; you can only connect them looking backwards. So you have to trust that the dots will somehow connect in your future. You have to trust in something — your gut, destiny, life, karma, whatever. This approach has never let me down, and it has made all the difference in my life.
  My second story is about love and loss.
  I was lucky — I found what I loved to do early in life. Woz and I started Apple in my parents garage when I was 20. We worked hard, and in 10 years Apple had grown from just the two of us in a garage into a $2 billion company with over 4000 employees. We had just released our finest creation — the Macintosh — a year earlier, and I had just turned 30. And then I got fired. How can you get fired from a company you started Well, as Apple grew we hired someone who I thought was very talented to run the company with me, and for the first year or so things went well. But then our visions of the future began to diverge and eventually we had a falling out. When we did, our Board of Directors sided with him. So at 30 I was out. And very publicly out. What had been the focus of my entire adult life was gone, and it was devastating.
  I really didn't know what to do for a few months. I felt that I had let the previous generation of entrepreneurs down – that I had dropped the baton as it was being passed to me. I met with David Packard and Bob Noyce and tried to apologize for screwing up so badly. I was a very public failure, and I even thought about running away from the valley. But something slowly began to dawn on me — I still loved what I did. The turn of events at Apple had not changed that one bit. I had been rejected, but I was still in love. And so I decided to start over.
  I didn't see it then, but it turned out that getting fired from Apple was the best thing that could have ever happened to me. The heaviness of being successful was replaced by the lightness of being a beginner again, less sure about everything. It freed me to enter one of the most creative periods of my life.
  During the next five years, I started a company named NeXT, another company named Pixar, and fell in love with an amazing woman who would become my wife. Pixar went on to create the worlds first computer ani
mated feature film, Toy Story, and is now the most successful animation studio in the world. In a remarkable turn of events, Apple bought NeXT, I returned to Apple, and the technology we developed at NeXT is at the heart of Apple's current renaissance. And Laurene and I have a wonderful family together.
  I'm pretty sure none of this would have happened if I hadn't been fired from Apple. It was awful tasting medicine, but I guess the patient needed it. Sometimes life hits you in the head with a brick. Don't lose faith. I'm convinced that the only thing that kept me going was that I loved what I did. You've got to find what you love. And that is as true for your work as it is for your lovers. Your work is going to fill a large part of your life, and the only way to be truly satisfied is to do what you believe is great work. And the only way to do great work is to love what you do. If you haven't found it yet, keep looking. Don't settle. As with all matters of the heart, you'll know when you find it. And, like any great relationship, it just gets better and better as the years roll on. So keep looking until you find it. Don't settle.
  My third story is about death.
  When I was 17, I read a quote that went something like: "If you live each day as if it was your last, someday you'll most certainly be right." It made an impression on me, and since then, for the past 33 years, I have looked in the mirror every morning and asked myself: "If today were the last day of my life, would I want to do what I am about to do today " And whenever the answer has been "No" for too many days in a row, I know I need to change something.
  Remembering that I'll be dead soon is the most important tool I've ever encountered to help me make the big choices in life. Because almost everything — all external expectations, all pride, all fear of embarrassment or failure – these things just fall away in the face of death, leaving only what is truly important. Remembering that you are going to die is the best way I know to avoid the trap of thinking you have something to lose. You are already naked. There is no reason not to follow your heart.
  About a year ago I was diagnosed with cancer. I had a scan at 7:30 in the morning, and it clearly showed a tumor on my pancreas. I didn't even know what a pancreas was. The doctors told me this was almost certainly a type of cancer that is incurable, and that I should expect to live no longer than three to six months. My doctor advised me to go home and get my affairs in order, which is doctor's code for prepare to die. It means to try to tell your kids everything you thought you'd have the next 10 years to tell them in just a few months. It means to make sure everything is buttoned up so that it will be as easy as possible for your family. It means to say your goodbyes.
  I lived with that diagnosis all day. Later that evening I had a biopsy, where they stuck an endoscope down my throat, through my stomach and into my intestines, put a needle into my pancreas and got a few cells from the tumor. I was sedated, but my wife, who was there, told me that when they viewed the cells under a microscope the doctors started crying because it turned out to be a very rare form of pancreatic cancer that is curable with surgery. I had the surgery and I'm fine now.
  This was the closest I've been to facing death, and I hope its the closest I get for a few more decades. Having lived through it, I can now say this to you with a bit more certainty than when death was a useful but purely intellectual concept:
  No one wants to die. Even people who want to go to heaven don't want to die to get there. And yet death is the destination we all share. No one has ever escaped it. And that is as it should be, because Death is very likely the single best invention of Life. It is Life's change agent. It clears out the old to make way for the new. Right now the new is you, but someday not too long from now, you will gradually become the old and be cleared away. Sorry to be so dramatic, but it is quite true.
  Your time is limited, so don't waste it living someone else's life. Don't be trapped by dogma — which is living with the results of other people's thinking. Don't let the noise of others' opinions drown out your own inner voice. And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow already know what you truly want to become. Everything else is secondary.
  When I was young, there was an amazing publication called The Whole Earth Catalog, which was one of the bibles of my generation. It was created by a fellow named Stewart Brand not far from here in Menlo Park, and he brought it to life with his poetic touch. This was in the late 1960's, before personal computers and desktop publishing, so it was all made with typewriters, scissors, and polaroid cameras. It was sort of like Google in paperback form, 35 years before Google came along: it was idealistic, and overflowing with neat tools and great notions.
  Stewart and his team put out several issues of The Whole Earth Catalog, and then when it had run its course, they put out a final issue. It was the mid-1970s, and I was your age. On the back cover of their final issue was a photograph of an early morning country road, the kind you might find yourself hitchhiking on if you were so adventurous. Beneath it were the words: "Stay Hungry. Stay Foolish." It was their farewell message as they signed off. Stay Hungry. Stay Foolish. And I have always wished that for myself. And now, as you graduate to begin anew, I wish that for you.

      中文翻译稿:

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      (斯坦福)是世界上最好的大学之一,今天能参加各位的毕业典礼,我备感荣幸。(尖叫声)我从来没有从大学毕业,说句实话,此时算是我离大学毕业最近的一刻。(笑声)今天,我想告诉你们我生命中的三个故事,并非什么了不得的大事件,只是三个小故事而已。

      第一个故事,是关于串起生命中的点点滴滴。(原文为“connecting the dots”指一种小游戏:把标有序列号的点连起来,就构成一幅图画——译注)

      我在里德大学呆了6个月就退学了,但之后仍作为旁听生混了18个月后才最终离开。我为什么要退学呢?

      故事要从我出生之前开始说起。我的生母是一名年轻的未婚妈妈,当时她还是一所大学的在读研究生,于是决定把我送给其他人收养。她坚持我应该被一对念过大学的夫妇收养,所以在我出生的时候,她已经为我被一个律师和他的太太收养做好了所有的准备。但在最后一刻,这对夫妇改了主意,决定收养一个女孩。侯选名单上的另外一对夫妇,也就是我的养父母,在一天午夜接到了一通电话:“有一个不请自来的男婴,你们想收养吗?”他们回答:“当然想。”事后,我的生母才发现我的养母根本就没有从大学毕业,而我的养父甚至连高中都没有毕业,所以她拒绝签署最后的收养文件,直到几个月后,我的养父母保证会把我送到大学,她的态度才有所转变。

      17年之后,我真上了大学。但因为年幼无知,我选择了一所和斯坦福一样昂贵的大学,(笑声)我的父母都是工人阶级,他们倾其所有资助我的学业。在6个月之后,我发现自己完全不知道这样念下

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